So then, for the heck of it, did I get lucky or WHAT? That, my dears, remains to be seen. What better time to experiment and "go see" than Super Bowl Sunday eh?

***Update***
Nope, we're not voting on dresses, just a few I have saved in Kaboodle that I love. My grandmother's name was Julia and we never really called her Jewel (or jewels for that matter) but you try google imaging "Julia" (smile). Julia Roberts would have been a good photo for that eh? Live and learn. And for the travel...I would like to travel to EBC again (it was amazing), but my fave place was/is Tibet. Especially all the monastaries. Name of a past pet...I had a red Beta fish named Cornell (go Big Red!). Right after I killed the bright orange goldfish named Syracuse (Orangemen and all). Won them both at the NY State Fair (in two different years). I know I know...corny.
***Update over***
Okay okay...a real (long) post is what you get. So was checking out my goods and came across some fun stuff out in blog land.
From five and a half, you so totally have to do this:
email us@fiveandahalf.net
Put "Postcard please" in the subject line and your mailing addy in the message. You can read all about it on their blog, but fun times with randomness promise to abound.
Be sure to visit their studio and buy me, I mean, buy yourself a really cool journal. Yes. Why yes I do love journals. Really. Go to the studio site. What is not to love?
And Field Negro is in rare form today. But...READ THIS WARNING!! He is NOT for the faint of heart. So much so that I won't even link that. Google is your friend.
So is Kaboodle. Some dresses I'm feelin':
And since I'm clearly in a pictorial mood and in these instances, I love reading CJ's blog (warning, if you're reading at work, hit volume mute--just cause I rock out everyday to her blog doesn't mean everyone has it like that) because she always has a good list of some sort to spread the blogger addiction love, I give you far more information than you ever cared to know. Don't get frustrated if you can't figure it out. Just means we're not that close. I ain't mad at ya. I'm messing...but some...not so obvious...some a bit more loosely translated, but all fun and games trying hard not to read files. Fun with flickr and yahoo image search.
1. Age on your next birthday?
2. A place where you would like to travel
3. favorite place?
4. favorite object?
5. favorite food?
6. favorite animal?
7. favorite color?
8. town where you were born?
9. name of a past pet?
10. nickname?
11. The town in which you live?
12. what are you listening to?
13. your last name?
14. A bad habit of yours?
15. Your first job?
16. Your grandma's name?
(well, sort of)
17. your hobby?
And just for the record. Sometimes, people who call me for advise on applying to law school freak me out. Sometimes they are funny. Sometimes they make me want to cry. It is rare that they are all three of those.
Happy Hump day plus 2. Or is it one? Oh no matter...go search yahoo and flickr for some cool photos.
Yeah. Not swollen. But swolled up. That would be my throat. What does cyanide poisoning feel like?
I digress. Welcome new readers...more like readers who had my blog addys a whole long while ago but it took minty fresh rodeo spray for them to actually check on in. I ain't mad at ya (smile).
Since I'm about to pass out from the heat (or the dizziness...or the lack of oxygen getting to my brain through the swolled up windpipe), I'ma hit you with some interactive wedding planning as promised last night.
Help a sister pick out a do yeah? Yeah. Since I'm on live writer and have not yet explored how to insert polls, if I pass out after finishing this entry, but before posting the poll, kick back. It will be right over there ------> Oh wait.
<------------------------- there.
The choices:
(there are 12 of them...you can pick more than one in the poll...we'll do a round two with the top 3 vote getters):
Simple numbering...1-3 top row, 4-6 second row, 7-9 third row and 10 - 12 bottom row. All pics from http://www.blackhairmedia.com/. You have until this Friday the 1st of Feb, come back and vote as often as you would like. And because I like them all, I have to check on the dress first, but I can at least 60% say with certainty that I'll likely do the do that you pick. So have fun with it!
Back to my deathbed.
***UPDATE*** Polls don't like more than 5 choices so instead, leave a comment with your choices. Sorry about that. When we narrow it to three...we'll then do a poll.
***UPDATE 2 - the Dress - *** Not sure on the dress yet. I was thinking more sleek, modern, evening gownish styling (think pageantish dress), but I think what would really knock him over would be something more regal/royal...not necessarily "princess", but not pageant. I know...kinda confusing. I agree that some of the styles are more pageant, others more "regal/princess" and because I'm having a heck of a time settling on one or the other, the suggestion to look at accessories, makeup and hair that really calls to me was suggested as a way to break the impasse. So...bit backward, BUT I gotta try something if I want to have something to wear. We have decided on a date finally...if only our church would definitively agree with it (smile) Fun times!
Not only because I stalk CJ's blog and pick up things like this (cool site by the way for all SORTS of widgets and whodads), but because I was all "What? I mean is it WRONG that I'm a bit skewed in my priorities?"
Yeah and this is what happens on a boring almost snow day. Nothing but blogging about nothing at all.
I guess this calls for some interactive wedding planning eh?
Shortly...work becons...
So I was watching Fox News some odd moment this past weekend. Probably Saturday morning when I was avoiding getting up at all costs. In any event, it was more of a zoom by as I was looking for some good quality trash tv to watch (The Bad Girls Club is a good one on a Saturday morning if you're looking too).
Anyhow, Fox was all over the whole South Carolina is good to go now, but so long Mr. Black Barack Obama. Or something along those lines. The whole race issue and all (like the gender issue, etc.)
Now. I'm fond of saying you can't have it both ways. My better half is all about how masterful the Clintons are at spin--make it your message and all. I'll definitely give them that. So when Bill (first name is okay right? Cause he surely ain't been acting anything "stately" or "Presidential" to garner much more than that lately) spun me dizzy on the whole "Well, you know, Jesse Jackson won So. Cackalacka (and you know he would have said it that way if he could have guaranteed 20 more votes from my people) back then too." I was all "well ain't that a trip?!"
There are so many MANY layers to that. There is the easy one to pick up all Jesse Jackson was black and so is Obama so...there's your black candidate.
But dig deeper. There's the whole "back in the 80's" tone...for a candidate of change and progression, what bigger smear than "talk about taking us back...waaaaay back...to the 80s..." that's a heavy hit.
So I'm dizzy and it really has nothing to do with "Yeah...let's not have the Michigan and Florida delegates seated because I'ma have this locked by then anyway but oh wait...I duped everyone else into not campaigning there and now I know I've got the edge so I want the delegates seated." We can all change our minds and all. I LOVED those SNL sketches with Al "I changed my mind" Gore. I gotta download those.
Nah. Lost in the shuffle of black folks coming home to vote for one of their own (and the scorch and burn politics of pissin' folks off so bad that if their candidate ISN'T the nominee, then they'll just stay home and not participate) is the fact that Mr. "He's a Black Man" Barack ALSO picked up a heavy tally of white votes. And women votes. And rural and urban and...
The message. Change. When people get so fed up with what is, to the point that they can't even imagine anything remotely worse to be afraid of that they just want change for the sake of change...THAT is when apathy breaks. THAT is when people get out and go vote. THAT is when people say enough is enough and they see results like Iowa (Huckabee and Barack) and results like New Hampshire (Clinton and McCain) and results like Nevada (popular vote vs. delegate count on the dem side) and results like South Carolina (landslide for Barack) and they say:
Hot damn! I really DO make a difference in this.
Why ruin it with politics as usual??
One last note on South Carolina. Street money. Research it. Understand it. And then understand how historic that democratic primary was.
That said...back to Fox. There was a headline about Oprah and the business of politics. I didn't see the story as I was a bit...ahem...busy. BUT, I can only imagine by her lack of presence now and her base of viewers that her choice to be vocal in her support was pretty gutsy. I mean yeah, most of her viewers and fans were all up on the "Sure O, whatever you say O, buy what again O?" BUT, I'm sure she caught some flack for it. Kinda like how Toni Morrison had been taking heat for her '98 essay blessing Clinton as the first black president. She restored my faith in all things Beloved with her endorsement today. But even that was not topped by Caroline Kennedy and her uncle.
My better half called it. THIS is one for the history books. Yeah, the last two elections were as well, for less than honorable reasons. But after those two elections (not the outcome, just how they played out) I had lost hope that I'd ever give two rips about another national election in this country. Never did I imagine that I'd care because it was so exciting in a GOOD way.
As you were. Toni...you're invited back over for book club again.
Yeah you know what time it is. 9 minutes till windshield guy and craziness of a day. So lists...I'll give you a good one:
And she said "hmmm...I'd like to read again":
So in no particular order, she picked up the following for some particular reasons.
![]() | 1001 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married by Monica Mendez Leahy Read more about this book... |
Pretty obvious. And pretty funny. We were supposed to start classes at church yesterday but, and I'm not sure if I should be concerned about this, I think someone forgot us. We ended up with a nice dinner instead and had I been thinking I would have whipped this little puppy out for some mid week entertainment. I mean 1001, you can imagine that there are some oddball ones in there. Like:
"Would you attend a time-share or other sales presentation?"
Heavy stuff there.
![]() | The Hazards of Good Breeding: A Novel by Jessica Shattuck Read more about this book... |
I've been to Boston. Once. No wait...twice. I liked it well enough. Most of the folks I went to school undergrad with were from NYC and they had this "thing" against Boston. I don't know...I'm a Texan. In any event, I love reading stories of "old money" and the secret lives of people so this I think will be a quick read.
![]() | Pedagogy of the Oppressed by Paulo Freire Read more about this book... |
Back in grad school, I struggled through this book. The whole po folks havin' to rise up and save themselves left me feeling...well...hopeless. Which I guess makes it appropriate that there is a very hopeful followup to this one. Nonetheless, going back a little wiser, a little smarter, I still can unequivocally say that it will take more than the oppressed saying "that's enough" to enact change. Yeah, the oppressed have to realize they are oppressed, but the oppressors also have to realize there is a better way. There is benefit to stopping the madness.
![]() | Dreaming in Cuban by Cristina Garcia Read more about this book... |
Love me some Christina Garcia. And for a long time now have been fascinated with the prospect of going to Cuba sometime in my lifetime.
![]() | A Cure for Dreams by Kaye Gibbons Read more about this book... |
For a hot moment there, I was all about anything southern. Summer Fletcher Greel Loved Me was another good one that kicked it all off. But this one is about the girls, generations of them, telling stories, getting by, loving and having hearts broken. I think I picked this one up again because as I was on one of the boards and reading profiles over at SiS, one of the questions asks for fave movie line. One of the sisters quoted a line from the Color Purple. Which I have seen, but never read. I have to work up to Ms. Walker though. Still trying to get over the Toni Morrison bad taste
![]() | Don't Play in the Sun: One Woman's Journey Through the Color Complex by Marita Golden Read more about this book... |
I picked this one up a while ago at Powells in Portland. At the time, when I checked out, the cashier gave me a really good recommendation on an African American women's collective writing project. Which I have promptly forgotten the name of. I so wanted to get that book. She said I would love it and I think she was likely right. I need to research that.
![]() | Tyranny of the Majority : Fundamental Fairness in Representative Democracy by Lani Guinier Read more about this book... |
You know I'm on this tip lately...all riled up. On the way back from Psyche, not REALLY caucus training the other day, while I was railing against the system, my more astute better half was saying "What's the difference between a Republic and a Democracy?" And that spiraled into a conversation on how corrupt the two party system in America is because money and people (he would argue power...but power wielded by PEOPLE is what I would counter...more specifically, only a select handful of people) just went up and did it to it. Anyhow, Fundamental Fairness has been my kick for...oh...about 3 months now. But I'm not going there again.
![]() | The End of Poverty: Economic Possibilities for Our Time by Jeffrey Sachs Read more about this book... |
Forward by Bono was actually really good. A bit dense and academic, and anyone who knows me knows I'm not on the "relative poverty" bandwagon. Mostly because of my own selfish background and my travels and experiences with "what is happy" and "what is enough" exposes BUT. I get it. Academically. Theoretically. Practically though...I think I've matured enough to move beyond that impasse to get through this book this time. That or I'll just read Collapse again.
![]() | Beyond Civilization: Humanity's Next Great Adventure by Daniel Quinn Read more about this book... |
Have always been and will always be fascinated with the end of time and what is next. Who will come and dig up who we were. What will they be, what will they wonder? Another one a bit academic in nature looking back at how civilizations have been built and abandoned back to a more "simple" way of living. Here, he tries to imagine what, well, what might happen if we evolved into something bigger than civilization. Hopefully, before we destroy what we have, but my brief stint in genetics/evolution leads me to believe that it is only because of destruction that we'd be forced to consider "what next." I'm marrying a finance geek, he's marrying a latent evolutionary believer. I'm contradictory. I know that. I like it. I like shades of gray.
![]() | Love, etc. by Julian Barnes Read more about this book... |
Travel. Love triangles. Past, present and future. Tragic, funny, awesome and awful. So it goes. It's a novel without a very novel base. Sometimes mindlessness is good.
![]() | Spending: A Novel by Mary Gordon Read more about this book... |
Another mindless one. Mindless for me because I LOVED the Thomas Crown Affair and this is about that. But one step further. When he loses it all and she gets it all and the power and attraction shifts...what happens then. This will take me like 2 hours to read.
![]() | Synchronicity: The Inner Path of Leadership by Read more about this book... |
More from grad school. Truth be told, the only book I read cover to cover in grad school. Lots of branching off and it was the impetus for me even looking up, applying for, getting a spot and ultimately having to turn down the GSE South Africa trip. I need to look one of those up again. Out of Seattle, competition would be stiff, but I think I could manage to make it again and go somewhere absolutely amazing to do amazing things. Man, the photos I could have had in SA...I need to get there. I will get there. Now that I'm "in that club" I so railed against in grad school...still trying to cope with that.
![]() | Black Beauty: A History and a Celebration by Ben Arogundade Read more about this book... |
Thought this was something else for the past couple of weeks and when I picked it up and settled down today to do it to it, I was at first disappointed (think of anticipation for apple pie and ice cream and all they have is cherry pie and whipped cream...blech). Then, I was very pleasantly surprised. There were some things I was looking for (primarily, face shots to take in for a consultation on wedding makeup and hair) but the history in this book and the "beauty" as not just external. Love. This.
Now I must go find the windshield guy. Happy reading.
Just some color in the whiteness.
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